A high-level 1:1 coaching for your expansion in Self Love, Pleasure, and Thriving Relationships
Self Love, Pleasure, and Relationship coaching
For Women+ about to turn 30 and beyond who want to reclaim their radiance...
and/or connect more deeply in their romantic relationship
You might be wondering... "why is this so hard now?" Or "why does this seem harder than it is for other people?"
-You're noticing your body doesn't respond to foreplay the way it did in your early 20s... it's a lot harder to open up and be ready.
-Anxiety comes up when your body isn't as turned on as your mind is during foreplay because "will he/she/they think I'm not attracted to them anymore?" comes up
-Maybe you have a milestone birthday coming up and want to feel as beautiful as you did when you were 25
-Maybe you don't feel worthy of your relationship and want to stop feeling like your partner will leave
-Maybe you've recently gone through a break up (which is so much harder in late 20s and beyond!) and desire to come into a deeper place of self love
Let's unleash your VIBRANCY & MAGNETISM within Self Love, Pleasure, and Relationship and JUST WATCH how that ripples into the rest of your life!
+Inclusivity statement: While my marketing is focused on my niche of supporting women, my work also welcomes anyone who was socialized as a girl/woman while growing up (non-binary folks and trans men). You are welcome here beautiful soul!!
This way to your radiance
Hi, I'm Cilia!
Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach
It's my mission to help you become a liberated and fully self expressed woman/person who goes after what she wants in this life!!
The big invitation with my work is calling you into deep love, presence, and surrender.
I was once a 28 year old, absolutely FREAKED OUT about turning 30 and completely unable to get turned on in my long term relationship.
"Will he think I'm not attracted to him?"
"Am I getting old- is this what being 30 just is??"
And I had no one to talk to about this. It was an anxious, lonely, and painful place.
When conscious coaching and practices around female sexuality helped me (like night and day!!), I signed up to be trained as a Sex, Love, and Relationship coach with a specialty in Life Transitions and Female Sexuality.
My work is flavored by my past career as a yoga, mediation, and fitness instructor and is very somatic (body-based) We go deeper than talking about stuff- we FEEL, we take new actions, and we completely transform!!
REAL TALK: This work is not for everyone. This is for the souls who are ready to go DEEP.
Because you won't only be liberated, you will THRIVE
Client Love
K.M.
Nothing was "wrong" in my marriage or relationship to pleasure, but I knew there was MORE I could experience, which is why I decided to work with Cilia. During our time together, I was able to surrender into the deeper states of pleasure I wanted rather than trying to do a thousand things to get there. Cilia really made the process simple, yet so so deep! My husband and I are now way more connected through communication, love, sex, and moving through life as a solid team and I'm so grateful!!
N.R.
Cilia has an easy way of showing up for the coaching sessions that made me feel safe, relaxed, and open to share about such sensitive topics. Through our time together, I've been empowered to make different decisions with how I relate to myself and what I decide to do with my time. It was difficult for me to relax and stay away from screens before our work together and with Cilia's help, I really dropped into myself. This then helped me to approach dating differently that I ever have before and to finally have an aligned, healthy relationship that I'm not self sabotaging!
S.H.
With Cilia as my coach, I was able to go into the dating world after a divorce in such a new way. I've never felt more empowered in my body, more resourced to say NO to what I don't want, and more alive and connected in my body. I'm setting better boundaries, loving more deeply, and experiencing more pleasure that I didn't think was possible after 50!!
D.B.
My time with Cilia has been so empowering!! Before working with her I was feeling disconnected from my body and her support was just what I needed to get into my heart. Thank you for reminding me that I have everything I need within!
K.C.
"Cilia has such a big heart, and her coaching has opened up so many new doorways for me. Through her programs, I’ve learned how to manage my anxiety, express myself more vulnerability, and release imposter syndrome. She has such a calming presence, which always makes me feel comfortable sharing my challenges and questions openly with her, without fear of judgment. She goes above and beyond in supporting her clients, and I feel very fortunate to have the opportunity to work together. I’ll carry the lessons I’ve learned from her with me for life"
A.G.
"Cilia held a powerful space, helped me understand my authenticity & helped me feel self sourced enough to show up authentically. Before working with her, I was feeling anxious to show up in my truth and after I'm feeling so self sourced & grounded in my truth, who I am & who I'm meant to be & how I'm meant to show up in the world. Cilia was so good at seeing me, hearing me, feeling me in such a tender & genuine way"
A.F.
For the first time in my life, I'm deeply in love with my body and I'm able to be fully present during sex. I feel so much more connected to my partner than I did 5 months ago, and it feels like so much more of me is online and alive. Before working with Cilia, I was very much trapped in my head, not enjoying sex, barreling through life, and having a hard time slowing down. We worked through so much deep healing that completely transformed me as a person, I really cannot recommend working with her enough!!
T.K.
My favorite part about working with Cilia was how she held a space of non judgement, exploration, and invitation. She brings a playfulness to deep, heavy topics and she brings so much honor to the things that feel tender. This truly was a remarkable journey and my husband loves how much more open I am to sex now! Thank you for changing my life by giving me a new relationship with myself, my body, and my husband!!
E.L.
I started working with Cilia because I was in my first healthy romantic relationship and I was feeling like I didn't deserve it. I wanted to stop thinking he would leave me and step into my worth as his partner and Cilia helped me with that in so many surprising ways I wouldn't have been able to access on my own. Now not only is my relationship thriving, but I'm also seeing myself expand in other areas of my life because of it.
A.M.
Cilia has a true gift of working her magic to ground me and take the jumbled mess of what I share to distill it down to what I'm saying I truly want and what is in the way. Working with her, I was able to heal the way I felt towards my mom and towards my body which helped me get so much closer to my husband. I really thought my marriage wasn't going to last but it's changed night and day from my work with Cilia and we couldn't be happier. Thank you so much!!
What our time together looks like:
Opening Ceremony & Call to set the space
We'll meet online weekly, 3 times a month
TWO 60-75 min coaching sessions per month
ONE guided & customized practice/ritual + coaching call per month
Customized Resources (PDFs, Audios, Videos)
Closing Ceremony
(Minimum commitment: 10 sessions across 13 weeks)
*Each package is customized a pricing is available upon request. Custom payment plans available. Partial scholarships available.