For the Ambitious Woman Who Has Built a Beautiful Life — But Still Can’t Fully Relax Into It
Worthy of Love
1:1 Somatic & Feminine Embodiment Coaching to Help You Feel Safe in Love, Connected to Your Body, and Finally Able to Enjoy the Good Things You’ve Worked So Hard For.
It's time to go from overthinking love to living from your body so that you can fully enjoy and savor the life you've put so much intention into instead of being stuck in your head trying to control it
If you're an ambitious woman who gets stuck in your mental energy and wants more connection with your divine feminine and your body, you're in the right place!!
With the ambitious fire you have, you've created a beautiful life for yourself.
You built the career.
You healed the obvious wounds.
You chose a healthier partner.
You invested in therapy, books, podcasts, growth.
And yet…
You still overthink texts.
You still brace for something to go wrong.
You still struggle to soften.
You still feel like love could disappear at any moment.
It's not because you’re doomed to fail, or broken. It's because your body doesn’t feel safe yet.
And until your nervous system believes you are safe, your life will feel like a movie you're watching play out in front of you instead of being fully immersed to receive it.
"Cilia is wonderful at providing a safe exploratory space. She brings a calm inquisitive nature that allowed me to feel free to disarm and ask myself some challenging & deeply fruitful questions. Her style is partnership-oriented, and I never felt judged. This helped to create a wonderful sense of joy and adventure in the process. I was amazed at some of the discoveries that emerged out of just 3 sessions, and I am greatly looking forward to delving in further, I can't recommend Cilia enough." -Brenda
You’ve outgrown the version of yourself who survives by staying busy, overthinking, and trying to prove your worth and you're ready to THRIVE.
Here's where you'll be at the end of working with me-- Imagine yourself:
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Waking up calm instead of scanning for emotional threat.
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Feeling desire in your body without shame.
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Expressing needs without apologizing.
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Trusting love without gripping it.
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Feeling deeply feminine, open, and grounded — even in conflict.
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Actually enjoying your relationship instead of analyzing it.
This is what becomes possible when your body feels safe. Not just mentally convinced. Actually safe.
"I definitely feel a shift in my feminine energy and power. My marriage is absolutely stronger, more connected, and sexier! I've also noticed some beautiful new levels of creativity blossoming. I would absolutely recommend this 1:1 work to anyone looking to deepen their relationship, unlearn + relearn old sexual stories, and claim their feminine power." -Anna
This isn't just relationship coaching
This is embodied reclamation.
I help ambitious women who live in their heads come home to their bodies. Because when you are grounded in your body:
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You stop chasing reassurance.
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You stop abandoning yourself.
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You stop confusing anxiety for chemistry.
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You stop performing strength.
And You start receiving.
- Love.
- Pleasure.
- Support.
- Stability.
- Joy!!!
How it Works:
I work using my Worthy of Love Method™ — a four-phase, body-based coaching approach that helps women feel safe in their bodies, healed in emotional patterns, confident in self-expression, and open to deep, secure connection.
Regulating the nervous system so vulnerability, desire, and emotional expression feel safe again and so you can feel emotionally steady.
Phase Two: Emotional Truth & Mother Wound Healing
We untangle inherited patterns, over-responsibility, and approval-seeking so that you stop performing for love.
Phase Three: Embodied Self-Expression // Feminine POWER
You practice expressing desires, boundaries, and sensuality from grounded confidence so that you can be powerful and soft at the same time.
Phase Four: Feminine Integration
You reconnect with your body, pleasure, desire, and relational ease so you can drink in your beautiful life that you get to live.
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Each session is a blend of scientifically proven transformational tools and mystical practices for a holistic transformation. Instead of spending our entire sessions talking, you’re guided in mindful practice and given space to drop in and feel.
My work is very flexible, bespoke and client centered so things will adjust based on your needs and what you have the capacity to consent to.
Every Session leads with:
- Teaching you and getting you used to the habit of celebrating TF out of yourself and unapologetically taking up space as you do so
- Slowing you down and getting you in the habit of being even more mindful in your body
- Your unique desires as the North Star (we choose one to laser focus on each session)
- Collaboration because we’re creating this ceremony and journey together and I’m here to walk you along the path of deep self-love. This means I communicate what’s coming next in our sessions and make sure you’re a yes. So if I was guiding a specific type of visualization, I’d give a brief overview of what I’ll be facilitating and giving you the opportunity to consent or let me know you’d prefer to go in a different direction. I always meet a “no” with celebration.
- Curiosity- qquestions and reflections are worded in a way to get more information rather than making you feel judged or broken.
Together, we'll Explore:
- Reclaiming sensuality and body love because this has a huge effect on you being able to take up space confidently in relationships
- Expanding your capacity for pleasure and presence because you need this to have the capacity for the relationships you crave
- Integrating what you desire to believe and embody about sex, sexuality, and relationships that turns around what you internalized about sex, sexuality, and relationships from Patriarchy, Capitalism, and your family of origin because this will set you free.
- Healing your relationship with divine feminine energy which is the part of us that slows down long enough to feel and is a part of us that Capitalism and Patriarchy tells us to suppress.
- And much more, all in a way that’s customized to the desires you want and where you’re at in the present.
What's Included:
Inside your private 1:1 coaching journey and ceremony, you’re getting:
- 6 months to devote to your transformation
- A coach who truly slows down and is present with you because I care about having a few long term client relationships rather than helping 100+ people for a few sessions.
- Sessions are a combination of exploration through conversation and facilitated body-based practice for the most depth
- Email recap of each session and you might even receive a resource that's relevant to your session to support you in your journey.
- You'll receive lifetime access to my sensual self love course, Heart Magick
Why I do this work
Inclusivity statement: My work welcomes women of all sexual orientations. While my main audience I serve is cis-women & the language on my website speaks to that group, my coaching welcomes trans, non-binary & gender fluid folks with vulvas
Hi, I'm Cilia and there was a time when I looked accomplished on the outside but on the inside, I felt anxious in love, disconnected from my body, and afraid to fully soften.
No amount of achievement fixed it.
What changed everything wasn’t “trying harder.”
It was learning how to feel safe in my body.
Through somatic healing, feminine embodiment work, and deep relational healing, I stopped living in survival mode and started experiencing intimacy, pleasure, and security in ways I didn’t know were possible.
Now, I guide other ambitious women through the same reclamation.
- Certified Sex, Love, and Relationships Coach
- Certified Women's Sexuality Coach
- Certified Life Transitions Coach
- Certified Womb Circle Facilitator
- Certified Yoga, Breath Work, and Meditation Instructor
- 4 years of coaching experience backed by a previous career as a full time yoga studio manager and instructor.
- Raised in a multicultural family in a progressive, multicultural city and I have a nerdy interest in sociology so I love the variety of humanity!
Past Clients // Testimonials
"She provides a safe space for exploration of deeper, more intimate topics that may be affecting our day to day lives without us even knowing about it. I truly felt cared for by Cilia during our sessions as she was attentive, took careful notes of my self expression, and managed to distill those in a concise manner which helped me focus more and have a more clear idea of what it is that I want in life."- T.R.
My time with Cilia has been empowering; prior to working with her I was feeling disconnected and drifting back into living life on autopilot. Her guidance and support were just what I needed to get out of my head and into my heart. Her approach to mindfulness and the tools she shared in the way of guided meditations and EFT have been so helpful on my journey. Thank you for reminding me that I have everything I need within!
Danielle B
Real Estate
"Cilia has such a big heart, and her coaching has opened up so many new doorways for me. Through her programs, I’ve learned how to manage my anxiety, express myself more vulnerability, and release imposter syndrome. She has such a calming presence, which always makes me feel comfortable sharing my challenges and questions openly with her, without fear of judgment. She goes above and beyond in supporting her clients, and I feel very fortunate to have the opportunity to work together. I’ll carry the lessons I’ve learned from her with me for life"
Krystal C
Facebook Ad Strategist
"Cilia held a powerful space, helped me understand my authenticity & helped me feel self sourced enough to show up authentically. Before working with her, I was feeling anxious to show up in my truth and after I'm feeling so self sourced & grounded in my truth, who I am & who I'm meant to be & how I'm meant to show up in the world. Cilia was so good at seeing me, hearing me, feeling me in such a tender & genuine way"
Shlee G.
Mindfulness Mentor & Virtual Assistant
"Cilia really got me to look deep and figure out where my beliefs are coming from. What I really liked was she gave me suggestions and ideas for how to improve so I had practical takeaways that I could implement straight away!! I could tell she really cared about trying to help and she is an incredibly genuine and lovely soul, I’d definitely recommend working with her!"
